Let me start by congratulating you. Congratulations! You’ve secured your visa, possibly booked your flight ticket, and are on your way to a new adventure. You may have not even left the shores of Nigeria and still preparing for your visa interview while waiting for a visa appointment date. Or perhaps, you’ve already landed in the United States and are looking to navigate your new surroundings and equip yourself with the needful things you should know that will come very handy in adjusting to life in the US and having an overall positive experience.

Moving from Nigeria to the US is no doubt a monumental step and deserves to be celebrated. However, while the prospect of a new life in the United States can be exciting, transitioning from Nigeria to the US may not be entirely smooth sailing. This is due to the distinct cultural landscapes of the two nations, which can sometimes make the process of adapting somewhat daunting. And even after adapting, you’re still likely to experience some struggles in dealing with the culture shock you’re bound to experience.

Having moved from Nigeria to the United States myself, I can attest to this, but the good news is that this blog post will furnish you with the essential things you need to know to make a seamless transition and maximize your experience in the United States. You might already be settling in or preparing for your move, you may not even be a Nigerian but be from another African country, you can still make use of these tips to help you navigate and flourish in your new home.

Top 8 Tips for Transitioning from Nigeria to the US Successfully 

From understanding cultural nuances to practical advice on daily living, these provided insights will be invaluable as you embark on the journey of moving from Nigeria to the US to help you thrive in your new environment.

1. Be open-minded and respectful

One of the most crucial tips for a successful transition when moving from Nigeria to the US is to be open-minded and respectful. It’s not to say that Nigerians are not respectful. In fact, respect is one of the top cultural values instilled in us since childhood. However, what defines “respect” in Nigeria and the United States are quite different. This is why it’s pertinent that you open your mind to the new culture and the way of life you’re venturing into.

In Nigeria, you may be accustomed to a certain way of doing things, whether it’s related to social customs, work practices, or daily routines but, in the US, you’ll encounter a diverse array of approaches and perspectives. In the US, people often take a more individualistic approach to tasks and problem-solving and even life in general, meaning they may do things in a way that feels most comfortable to them rather than adhering to a standard method.

This can be quite different from the collective or traditional methods you might be used to. It’s essential to be open-minded about these differences and view them as learning opportunities rather than points of contention.

Being respectful involves more than just tolerating differences; it means valuing and appreciating them. Here are a few ways to practice openness and respect:

Be Ready to Learn New Things: Be open to embracing new methods and ideas without putting on too much resistance. If someone does something differently than you’re used to, see it as a chance to learn a new perspective rather than insisting on the way you’ve always known.

Polite Interactions: Whether you’re speaking to someone younger or older, always be polite. You’ll encounter some older people who will prefer you call them by their first name, and they may find it disrespectful if you call them “ma” or “sir.” Coming from Nigeria and moving to the US, you may find it challenging to call an older person by their first name, but if this is their preference, it’s important to respect it.

Respect Opinions: Even if you disagree with someone’s choices or opinions, approach these differences with respect. Avoid speaking ill of their decisions and instead, try to understand their viewpoint. You may not agree but you don’t need to make them look like they don’t know what they’re saying.

Pronounce Names Correctly: Names hold significant personal value, so make an effort to pronounce people’s names correctly. It’s also advised that you avoid making jokes about names, as this can be offensive to many. Aside from pronouncing names correctly, you should also use people’s pronouns correctly. Unlike in Nigeria where pronouns referring to people do not extend beyond he and she, people’s pronouns here in the US can range from him/his and she/her to they/them and she/them.

When you adopt an open-mind and a respectful attitude, it will not only help you in adjusting to life in the US but it will also earn you respect and create positive connections with those around you. This cultural flexibility will be one of your greatest assets as you navigate your new environment.

2. Be Conscious of Your Words

Another crucial tip for adjusting to life in the US is to be conscious of your words. In Nigeria, people often speak freely, and even if something said is taken the wrong way, it’s usually possible to apologize and move on. However, in the US, the cultural dynamics are different, and it’s essential to be mindful of how your words might be perceived.

In Nigeria, where forgiveness is deeply ingrained in the cultural and religious setting, misunderstandings are often quickly resolved. People are generally more forgiving, and there is a greater emphasis on moving past minor offenses. However, in the US, the landscape can be quite different. A single thoughtless remark can have far-reaching consequences, potentially offending multiple people and leading to heavy social backlash or even “cancelation.”

Here are some key points to keep in mind:

Choose Your Words Carefully: Before you speak, do well to consider the impact of your words. Note that what may be acceptable or humorous in Nigeria might be perceived very differently in the US. Being thoughtful about your language can go a long way in helping you avoid misunderstandings and conflicts.

Be Mindful with Instructions: When it comes to giving and receiving instructions in the United States, there are a few things to keep in mind. In Nigeria, we often give and receive instructions directly, saying exactly what should be done. This contrasts with the U.S., where people typically avoid direct commands. For example, instead of saying “Don’t do that,” someone might say “I wouldn’t do that” or “I would do it this way.”

Before I understood this, I struggled every time someone said, “Oh, I wouldn’t do this,” thinking, “Okay, you wouldn’t do that, but maybe I can.” In reality, they meant “you shouldn’t do this.” When giving instructions, it’s also important to avoid expressions like “you have to” or “you must,” as they can come across as authoritarian. In Nigeria, these phrases are commonly used and not seen as imposing, but in the U.S., they might be perceived differently.

Be Aware of Sensitivities: The US is a diverse and multicultural society with varying levels of sensitivity to different issues. Topics that may not be sensitive in Nigeria could be highly sensitive in the US. It’s important to be aware of these cultural sensitivities and navigate conversations accordingly. For example, topics on gender and sexuality can be very sensitive. So, navigate these discussions wisely.

Understand the Importance of Respect: This tip, again, ties into the broader concept of respect in the first point. In the US, respect is demonstrated through mindful communication. Avoid making derogatory comments, even in jest, and be careful with humor that could be misinterpreted.

Apologies May Not Always Suffice: While apologies are important, they may not always be enough to mend a situation. In the US, an offense can sometimes lead to lasting repercussions, so it’s better to prevent the situation by being cautious with your words in the first place.

Practice Active Listening: To avoid misunderstandings, practice active listening. Pay attention to the cues and reactions of others and adjust your speech accordingly. This will help you become more attuned to what is considered appropriate and respectful.

Understand the Communication Difference: Nigeria is one of the cultures that practice high context communication where a lot of information tends to be conveyed nonverbally through physical gestures, voice tone, and facial expressions. This is very much unlike the US where low context communication is practiced, meaning that words and ideas are explicitly communicated, without necessarily relying on nonverbal communication. You may want to be mindful of this while communicating in the US. Be clear and explicit.

By being conscious of your words and understanding the cultural tone of communication in the US, you can navigate social interactions more effectively and build positive relationships. This mindfulness not only helps you avoid conflicts but also demonstrates respect and consideration for the diverse perspectives you will encounter in your new environment.

3. Staring, Contact, and Pointing

This tip is crucial and can greatly influence the success of your transition from Nigeria to the US. Be aware that staring, contact, and pointing are perceived differently in the US. In Nigeria, people often stare freely, and while it might occasionally cause discomfort to certain people, it typically doesn’t carry a negative connotation. Likewise, touching and pointing at someone isn’t seen as a big deal. However, in the US, staring, contact, and pointing can be interpreted very differently.

In the US, staring at someone, especially into their eyes or for an extended period, can make people feel uncomfortable and even threatened. It is often seen as an invasion of privacy or a sign of aggression. To avoid misunderstandings, it’s important to be mindful of your gaze and avoid prolonged eye contact or obvious staring.

Likewise, it’s advised you avoid touching anyone. Unless they give their permission and grant consent, such an act may constitute an assault. In a similar view, pointing at someone may also be seen as a sign of aggression.

Here are some key points to keep in mind:

Quick Glimpses Only: If something or someone catches your attention while you’re out and about, there is nothing wrong with taking a quick glance. However, avoid lingering looks that could be perceived as intrusive.

Respect Personal Space: People in the US value their personal space and privacy. Staring can be seen as an invasion of that privacy, so it’s crucial to be discreet and respectful. More so, when you’re sitting beside someone or standing, make sure you leave some space in between.

Mind Your Business: In the US, people generally prefer to mind their own business and expect others to do the same. By avoiding staring, you demonstrate respect for others’ space and privacy.

Adjust to Cultural Differences in Dress: Coming from a conservative society where people typically show less skin, you might find the more relaxed dress codes, especially in the summer, surprising. Regardless of how different it may seem, avoid staring at people based on their clothing choices, as this can be construed as inappropriate or even as sexual harassment.

By being conscious of how you direct your gaze, you can navigate social interactions more smoothly and avoid making others feel uneasy. This small adjustment in behavior will not only reflect your respect for the cultural norms of your new environment but also help you integrate more seamlessly into the American society.

4. Be Punctual

Punctuality is a fundamental aspect of the American daily life and is highly valued in professional and social contexts. Unlike in Nigeria, where the concept of “African time” is often tolerated, punctuality is non-negotiable in American culture.

Arriving on time not only demonstrates responsibility and reliability but also shows that you respect other people’s time. In the US, events, meetings, classes, and transportation schedules adhere strictly to the specified times. Being punctual not only shows that you can be trusted to fulfill your commitments but also contributes to the smooth functioning of society as a whole.

Here are some key considerations for practicing punctuality in the US:

Plan Ahead: Prioritize punctuality by planning your schedule meticulously. Prepare for delays that could arise, such as traffic or unexpected circumstances, and aim to arrive early to your destination.

Respect Others’ Time: Recognize that being late not only inconveniences you but also disrupts the schedules of others. Arriving promptly demonstrates consideration and respect for those you interact with.

Be Prepared: Whether you’re catching a bus, attending a class, or starting a shift at work, aim to arrive a few minutes early to allow time for preparation and to settle in comfortably.

Cultural Variations: While punctuality is generally expected across the US, there may be slight variations in different cities or regions. Familiarize yourself with local norms and adjust your schedule accordingly.

Professional Impressions: Punctuality is particularly crucial in professional settings, such as job interviews or meetings. Arriving late can reflect poorly on your professionalism and may impact your opportunities for advancement. If you have a meeting at 2:00 pm, aim to arrive by 1:54 pm at the latest. Trust me, it’s always better to be a few minutes early than to be late.

When you embrace punctuality as a core value and integrate it into your daily routine, you will be demonstrating reliability and professionalism. Your commitment to being on time will not just enhance your personal reputation but as well contribute to the efficiency and effectiveness of the broader community.

5. Be Patient

As you’re transitioning from Nigeria to the US, patience is one of the key virtues you’ll need to embrace more. In Nigeria, particularly in bustling cities like Lagos, life can be a constant rush. If you live on the mainland and work on the island, you’re familiar with the early wakeups, battling heavy traffic, and competing with others for a spot on public transportation. This high-paced lifestyle often breeds a sense of urgency and impatience.

However, in the US, you’ll find that patience is essential in many aspects of daily life. Here are some key points I advise you to consider:

Respect Traffic Laws: When driving, it’s crucial to respect traffic laws and be patient on the road. Speeding beyond the limits, running red lights, or aggressive driving can quickly land you in trouble with law enforcement, which can result in tickets or more severe consequences. Always allow extra time for your commute to avoid the temptation to rush.

Practice Queue Etiquette: In the US, people respect the concept of waiting in line. Whether you’re at the grocery store, a bank, or waiting for public transportation, it’s important to patiently wait your turn. Cutting in line or crowding others is considered extremely rude and can lead to conflicts. And when waiting in lines or queues, ensure you leave enough space between yourself and the person in front of you.

Be Cautious When Provoked: While provocations may not be a daily occurrence, they do happen, and it’s important to handle them wisely. In your daily interactions, you will encounter a diverse range of people and situations. When provoked, it’s crucial to practice patience and restraint.

Especially in heated situations, avoid any physical contact or aggression to prevent serious consequences, including potential jail time. An arrest is not something you want to have on your record because it could negatively affect your career prospects for years to come. If you’re in the right, don’t hesitate to gather evidence and call the police if you’re touched, assaulted, or feel threatened.

When you practice patience, you’ll be able to navigate your new environment more effectively and avoid unnecessary conflicts. This adjustment in mindset will help you integrate smoothly into American society. It will also serve as a demonstration of your respect for local customs and contribution to a more pleasant experience for everyone involved.

6. Understand Your Finance

Your finance is one thing you don’t want to treat with levity and when it comes to managing your finances in the US, it’s crucial to plan your finances carefully to avoid defaulting on payments, which could result in eviction from your apartment if you’re unable to pay for your rent, negatively impact your credit score, and even expose you to financial stress. Living in the US exposes you to recurring monthly bills and this is why you don’t want to treat your finances with levity.

Here are some key points that can broaden your understanding about your finances in the United States:

Cost of Living: Many people planning on moving from Nigeria to the US often overlook the importance of choosing the right city to live in. Do well to research the cost of living in the city you’re moving to and create a budget accordingly.

Monthly Rent: Unlike in Nigeria where the rent is often annually, rent here is usually paid monthly. So, ensure that you have a plan in place to pay your rent on time every month. Missing rent payments can lead to legal issues and damage your credit rating.

Credit Cards: Consider getting a credit card, such as Discover, which can be helpful for managing expenses when you can’t pay upfront. Nevertheless, be disciplined about paying at least the minimum amount due on time to maintain a good credit score.

Payment Methods: While cash is still used, most transactions are conducted with credit or debit cards. Understand the difference: a debit card is linked to your bank account, and you don’t usually enjoy the luxury of spending more than what is in your account. But a credit card provides a credit line that you can use then pay back, often with interest if not paid by the due date.

Paying for Outings: When going out with friends or attending social events, always bring your own money. Unlike in Nigeria, where the person who invites others out often pays, in the US, it’s common for everyone to cover their own expenses.

Spending Wisely: Be mindful of your spending habits. It’s very easy to accumulate debt in the US, which can quickly become overwhelming. What you want to do is to stay away from purchases that are not necessary and stick to your budget.

You’ll be able to avoid common pitfalls when you understand and manage your finances effectively. Planning ahead and being financially responsible will help you maintain a stable and secure lifestyle in your new environment.

7. Getting Around

Moving from Nigeria to the US comes with its pros and cons. One of the cons is that unlike in Nigeria, where it’s common to quickly hop on a bus, a keke napep, or a bike to get to your destination, these options are not as readily available in the US. This explains why it’s essential that you understand how transportation works in the US and how it differs significantly from what you might be used to in Nigeria.

Here’s what you need to know about getting around in the US:

Public Transportation: While most cities have public bus systems, their efficiency and coverage can vary widely. In some cities, public buses reach most parts of the city and run frequently. In others, the public transport network might be limited, making it less convenient for everyday commuting.

Getting a Car: Eventually, owning a car may become your best option for reliable transportation. You can lease a car and make monthly payments, but be prepared for additional expenses such as insurance and maintenance costs. It’s important to budget for these expenses to avoid financial strain.

Electric Bikes: Another viable option is an electric bike, which can be an economical and environmentally friendly way to get around, especially for shorter distances. Biking also offers enormous health benefits and it’s an incredible way to know your city.

Ridesharing Services: It can be very convenient to use services like Uber but if you use it frequently, it can become quite expensive. Although Uber may be a good option for occasional trips, it’s best to avoid it for daily commuting to manage costs effectively.

Plan Ahead: If you rely on public transportation, familiarize yourself with the schedules and routes. When you plan ahead, you’ll be able to save time and avoid missing buses or trains.

You’ll be able to explore your new environment more effectively and make informed decisions about how best to get around when you understand the transportation options available in your city and plan accordingly.

8. Always Bring Your Energy

The last tip I’ll recommend you adopt that will come in very handy for you and help you thrive in adjusting to life in the US is to always bring positive energy wherever you go. One thing I’ve noticed is that people in the US often feed off the energy you project, and your interactions and experiences can be significantly impacted if you maintain a positive, enthusiastic demeanor.

Another good thing about positive energy and attitude is that they can benefit your mental and physical health, which will ultimately make you enjoy stress reduction, increased resilience, and an overall more fulfilling life experience.

Final Thoughts on Moving from Nigeria to the US

Moving from Nigeria to the US is a beautiful adventure that is full of promise and possibility. But as exciting as it may be, you cannot escape the culture shock that comes with it because it’s a natural part of the journey. As you become immersed in unfamiliar customs, traditions, and ways of life, it’s normal to feel overwhelmed or uncertain. But here’s the beauty of it all: each challenging moment opens up a window of opportunity to learn and grow.

By embracing the unknown and being open to new experiences, you’ll not only survive but thrive in your new home. More so, there is nothing wrong with asking questions, seeking guidance, and mingling with the local community because, in fact, these connections will be your lifeline as you go through the ups and downs of intercultural living. Lastly, make sure you enjoy yourself and don’t forget to be a good ambassador of where you’re from.